LOVE ABUNDANTLY TODAY
- Joshua Melancon
- Nov 13, 2022
- 3 min read
Men, Love Abundantly With Your True Authentic Self
In a world where "toxic masculinity" is becoming more and more of a buzzword, it's important for men to remember that we are not the enemy.
However we are the problem.
WE ARE ALSO THE SOLUTION!
The problem is a lack of authenticity.
A lack of true connection.
A lack of love.
But we can change that.
We can be better.
We can be the men our fathers wanted us to be.
The men our children need us to be.
But it starts with being our authentic selves.
We live in a world that tells us to suppress our emotions, to "man up," to be tough and stoic at all costs.
But that's not what it means to be a man.
It's not what it means to be human.
To be a man is to be vulnerable, to be open, to feel deeply and express those feelings freely.
It's okay to cry.
It's okay to show emotion.
In fact, it's essential if we want to truly connect with others.
The key is balance.
We need to find a way to express our emotions in a healthy way, without letting them control us.
We need to stay grounded in who we are while still being open to new experiences and new people.
We need to find our authentic selves and then hold onto them tight—because that's what will help us create the relationships we really want in life, the ones that are based on true love and connection instead of superficiality and appearances.
How To Be An Authentic Man
1) Get in touch with your emotions:
One of the first steps to being your authentic self is getting in touch with your emotions.
This doesn't mean you have to start crying at every little thing—but it does mean being aware of what you're feeling and why you're feeling it.
Once you're attuned to your emotions, you can start expressing them in healthy ways instead of bottling them up until they explode.
2) Communicate openly and honestly:
Another key part of being an authentic man is communicating openly and honestly with those around you.
This includes both speaking and listening—really hearing what someone has to say instead of just waiting for your turn to talk.
When you're open and honest with others, you create an environment of trust and respect—and that's essential for any meaningful relationship.
3) Stay true to yourself:
One trap many men fall into is trying too hard to please others or conform to societal expectations instead of staying true to themselves.
This can lead to all sorts of problems down the road, from lost friendships and damaged relationships to feelings of self-loathing and depression.
So instead of chasing after an idealized version of masculinity, focus on being the best version of yourself—flaws and all.
The world will be a better place for it—and so will you.
If we want things to change, if we want the world to be a better place, it starts with each one of us individually making the decisionto be our authentic selves—flaws and all.
To truly love ourselves and others unconditionally—unconditionally!
To communicate openly and honestly... even when it's difficult.. or terrifying.. because THAT'S what love is!
THAT'S how we make the world a better place!
So men, I urge you: Love abundantly with your true authentic self! The world needs your light! Your love! Yourtruth!
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